<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post4693661678196645266..comments</id><updated>2007-09-08T00:25:49.158-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Serving the Queens: There's A Girl</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/feeds/4693661678196645266/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Jenn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01611709391769911868</uri><email>ServingTheQueens@gmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>44</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4139067903778760019</id><published>2007-09-08T00:23:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-08T00:23:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh my chest tightened more and more as I read this...</title><content type='html'>Oh my chest tightened more and more as I read this.  The way you write is so beautiful and I feel like I could have written it myself (if I could write).  I can feel myself in your shoes and I will walk with you on this scary journey.  Love to you</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4139067903778760019'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4139067903778760019'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1189225380000#c4139067903778760019' title=''/><author><name>Busy Momma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06095295770648504952</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4377016922753931553</id><published>2007-09-07T00:07:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-07T00:07:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Ditto what luckyzmom said. 36 days? You've got an ...</title><content type='html'>Ditto what luckyzmom said. 36 days? You've got an entire 36 days to ruin his wedding? Why didn't you do this 3 years ago? &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;It is too late. He has moved on. He loves someone else. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Your selfish romantic notions will hurt  yourself, your daughters, her father, and the woman he loves enough to marry. Sorry, but that's the truth. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;-Anonymous.&lt;BR/&gt;Who has seen the other side of this drama first hand.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4377016922753931553'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4377016922753931553'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1189138020000#c4377016922753931553' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-6619026384530735267</id><published>2007-09-05T08:31:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-05T08:31:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm here via Jen at One Plus Two...I hope you find...</title><content type='html'>I'm here via Jen at One Plus Two...&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I hope you find the peace you seek. Best wishes.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6619026384530735267'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6619026384530735267'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188995460000#c6619026384530735267' title=''/><author><name>Ruth Dynamite</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06161626814106717754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4662791993980129570</id><published>2007-09-04T11:06:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-09-04T11:06:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow... this is really beautiful.. and I get what y...</title><content type='html'>Wow... this is really beautiful.. and I get what you're saying. Perhaps more than might be immediately evident. :)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Peace, &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;~Chani&lt;BR/&gt;http://thailandgal.blogspot.com</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4662791993980129570'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4662791993980129570'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188918360000#c4662791993980129570' title=''/><author><name>thailandchani</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10171731740204067889</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-6325541660037332682</id><published>2007-08-29T16:37:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-29T16:37:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow, wow, I found you through Sanity and the Solo ...</title><content type='html'>Wow, wow, I found you through Sanity and the Solo Mom... and I'm so glad that I did. I'll be back for more. Thanks for the dose of honesty.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6325541660037332682'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6325541660037332682'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188419820000#c6325541660037332682' title=''/><author><name>Single Mom Seeking</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04846340433536492232</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-6060383625144082901</id><published>2007-08-28T11:27:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-28T11:27:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm here.  With no words.  Just here.</title><content type='html'>I'm here.  With no words.  Just here.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6060383625144082901'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6060383625144082901'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188314820000#c6060383625144082901' title=''/><author><name>Sarah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07257891014401157085</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-2271384494372617111</id><published>2007-08-27T17:41:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-27T17:41:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow. I wish you peace.</title><content type='html'>Wow. &lt;BR/&gt;I wish you peace.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/2271384494372617111'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/2271384494372617111'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188250860000#c2271384494372617111' title=''/><author><name>Tuesday Girl</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01816799873933925204</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-7934242469830280597</id><published>2007-08-27T16:29:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-27T16:29:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>powerfully written. wishing you &amp; the girl peace.</title><content type='html'>powerfully written. wishing you &amp; the girl peace.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/7934242469830280597'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/7934242469830280597'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188246540000#c7934242469830280597' title=''/><author><name>Wayfarer Scientista</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07996334636311497271</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-3523583745810656899</id><published>2007-08-27T04:15:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-27T04:15:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Don't hold back.Do what you gotta do and do it wel...</title><content type='html'>Don't hold back.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Do what you gotta do and do it well.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Best of everything.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/3523583745810656899'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/3523583745810656899'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188202500000#c3523583745810656899' title=''/><author><name>carrie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04038972194323564240</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-3460116069108477248</id><published>2007-08-26T18:51:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-26T18:51:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Jenn, I am so glad you are doing this, my friend. ...</title><content type='html'>Jenn, I am so glad you are doing this, my friend.  You don't need to live with that &lt;I&gt;what if&lt;/I&gt;.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Of course, there are other what if's...&lt;I&gt;what if&lt;/I&gt; you find you don't want him after all, &lt;I&gt;what if&lt;/I&gt; he goes to the store for milk one afternoon and again doesn't return and the Girl reappears, this time twice heartbroken, &lt;I&gt;what if&lt;/I&gt; &lt;I&gt;what if&lt;/I&gt; &lt;I&gt;what if&lt;/I&gt;.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;But I applaud your decision to get some answers.  Stay strong, beautiful woman!  You've an army of us out here supporting you...remember that.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/3460116069108477248'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/3460116069108477248'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188168660000#c3460116069108477248' title=''/><author><name>Christine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13843141103424224033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-5402010342044765720</id><published>2007-08-26T18:13:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-26T18:13:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>What a moving and powerful piece!</title><content type='html'>What a moving and powerful piece!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/5402010342044765720'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/5402010342044765720'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188166380000#c5402010342044765720' title=''/><author><name>Twisted Cinderella</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14273548648344779210</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-675379443352073779</id><published>2007-08-26T18:10:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-26T18:10:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Whoa.  This gave me goosebumps and a knot in my st...</title><content type='html'>Whoa.  This gave me goosebumps and a knot in my stomach.  I wish you godspeed on this journey.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/675379443352073779'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/675379443352073779'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188166200000#c675379443352073779' title=''/><author><name>Ally</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15264625893829690986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-65317255522238101</id><published>2007-08-26T13:41:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-26T13:41:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>You're very brave -- I hope you find some peace.</title><content type='html'>You're very brave -- I hope you find some peace.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/65317255522238101'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/65317255522238101'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188150060000#c65317255522238101' title=''/><author><name>Teryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02740660002168077471</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-2928877988517617624</id><published>2007-08-25T23:51:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-25T23:51:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh Jenn-I read this 3 times and I still don't know...</title><content type='html'>Oh Jenn-&lt;BR/&gt;I read this 3 times and I still don't know what to say to it. Just in reading it I feel vulnerable and scared..for you, and amazed at your determination and strength.  I hope this brings you what you need, one way or the other.&lt;BR/&gt;You carry our hearts with you as you go.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/2928877988517617624'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/2928877988517617624'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188100260000#c2928877988517617624' title=''/><author><name>Joy, of course</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16743049921159926147</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-6812697379780855746</id><published>2007-08-25T17:37:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-25T17:37:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>JennI wish you the best.  I really do.  I'm fairly...</title><content type='html'>Jenn&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I wish you the best.  I really do.  I'm fairly new to your blog, so I don't know the history, but I know you're hurting.  Do what your heart tells you to do.  Have no regrets.  And then move on.  With God's help, anything is possible.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Hugs!&lt;BR/&gt;Kat</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6812697379780855746'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6812697379780855746'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188077820000#c6812697379780855746' title=''/><author><name>justabeachkat</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06730467440181411875</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-967951036734669310</id><published>2007-08-25T15:07:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-25T15:07:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Jenn!This is one of the most powerful posts I have...</title><content type='html'>Jenn!&lt;BR/&gt;This is one of the most powerful posts I have ever read.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;So I'm all conflicted about the comment because I want to praise the writing like mad, but then, but then there's the subject too!!!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Go, run... say it all!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;XO!!!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;OTJ</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/967951036734669310'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/967951036734669310'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188068820000#c967951036734669310' title=''/><author><name>Oh, The Joys</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05031731198115388411</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07152096034484995400'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-3324344966561297841</id><published>2007-08-25T11:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-25T11:35:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>You literally took my breath away with this post. ...</title><content type='html'>You literally took my breath away with this post.  I was so lucky that I didn't love T or R's fathers (Yep, fathers - maybe I should be tramp mama).  But if I had - I hope I'd have been as brave as you are.  My thoughts and prayers will be with you.  I hope the outcome brings you everything you deserve.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/3324344966561297841'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/3324344966561297841'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188056100000#c3324344966561297841' title=''/><author><name>Not a Princess</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03397095103448208487</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-8250446387248797406</id><published>2007-08-25T08:07:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-25T08:07:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wishing both girls strength to see this through. Y...</title><content type='html'>Wishing both girls strength to see this through. Your cheering squad is behind you. xo</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/8250446387248797406'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/8250446387248797406'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188043620000#c8250446387248797406' title=''/><author><name>KC</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02114277144629595998</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-6958197359748592219</id><published>2007-08-25T07:46:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-25T07:46:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>my kisses and love are being sent your way.you are...</title><content type='html'>my kisses and love are being sent your way.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;you are brave and strong.  it is scary, but you can do it.  we'll be here in the end no matter what.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6958197359748592219'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6958197359748592219'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188042360000#c6958197359748592219' title=''/><author><name>Christine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04662448292809451387</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-1100445828213319255</id><published>2007-08-25T01:32:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-25T01:32:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>mother of god.jenn, i love you.  you go, girl.  in...</title><content type='html'>mother of god.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;jenn, i love you.  you go, girl.  in the best and most powerful sort of way.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/1100445828213319255'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/1100445828213319255'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188019920000#c1100445828213319255' title=''/><author><name>jen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07056576921114387218</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4458044386365316764</id><published>2007-08-24T23:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-24T23:35:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>My heart is breaking for you (and I've been there)...</title><content type='html'>My heart is breaking for you (and I've been there). You must do what you feel you need to...but really and truly YOU DESERVE so much more. Godspeed.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4458044386365316764'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4458044386365316764'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188012900000#c4458044386365316764' title=''/><author><name>Jennifer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18063588228788837802</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-2872947267980728041</id><published>2007-08-24T23:08:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-24T23:08:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Jenn, I completely understand this because it is w...</title><content type='html'>Jenn, I completely understand this because it is what I would do too.  You can't spend your life wondering "what if...?"&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;This was a powerful, moving post, my friend.  Very powerful.  And I'm sure I only felt a fraction of your love and passion through the words.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Do what you've got to do.  Best of luck to you.  No matter what happens, at least you'll know....</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/2872947267980728041'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/2872947267980728041'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188011280000#c2872947267980728041' title=''/><author><name>Lawyer Mama</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06819273107327846943</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4662562788263884966</id><published>2007-08-24T22:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-24T22:28:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Best of luck and safe journey.</title><content type='html'>Best of luck and safe journey.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4662562788263884966'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/4662562788263884966'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188008880000#c4662562788263884966' title=''/><author><name>canape</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15061361665908074413</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-6980260280910610180</id><published>2007-08-24T21:38:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-24T21:38:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Godspeed Baby! I am here for anything that you may...</title><content type='html'>Godspeed Baby! I am here for anything that you may need me to do and I am SO proud of you for this!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;You deserve this Honey, no matter what the outcome. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Be strong.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6980260280910610180'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/6980260280910610180'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188005880000#c6980260280910610180' title=''/><author><name>Becc</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02712591481826520713</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-8418281702160149559</id><published>2007-08-24T21:33:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2007-08-24T21:33:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Take care of yourself on your trip.  I guess it is...</title><content type='html'>Take care of yourself on your trip.  I guess it is better to know then not to know.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/8418281702160149559'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/4693661678196645266/comments/default/8418281702160149559'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html?showComment=1188005580000#c8418281702160149559' title=''/><author><name>Angela</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02786127130691625566</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://iservethequeens.blogspot.com/2007/08/theres-girl.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23665959.post-4693661678196645266' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/23665959/posts/default/4693661678196645266' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>